if you read my blog..

you probably know me personally...and if you know me personally...you probably know that we've had kind of a horrible weekend.....probably the worst ever so far.

This pretty much sums up how I'm feeling....noone has said these things to me..but I have definitely tried to say them to myself to make the pain less....I've just started to accept that this is how it is, and it will never not hurt...and it's ok to grieve, and then try to move on.

Nobody knew you

Nobody knew you
” Sorry about the miscarriage dear, but you couldn’t have been very far along.”
…existed.
Nobody knew you
” It’s not as though you lost an actual person.”
…were real
Nobody knew you
” Well it probably wasn’t a viable fetus.
It’s all for the best.”
…were perfect.
Nobody knew you
” You can always have another!”
…were unique.
Nobody knew you
” You already have a beautiful child. Be happy!”
…were loved for yourself.
Nobody knew you
…but us.
And we will always remember
…You.
By Jan Cosby

We will remember...always......8-27-2010

Love....us